Lady Gaga MTV VMA's Opening Act

Announced yesterday the artist everyone has a love hate relationship with will be this years MTV VMA's opening act on Aug 28th.  If you remember last year Lady Gaga wore the infamous "meat dress". What can we expect this year??? Im anxious to see this lady is a true performer and she knows how to entertain!

Beyonce Countdown Snippet

My Intimate Night With Beyonce

On this past Friday, my sisters and I traveled to NYC to celebrate our sister Ashley's birthday. About a week into planning her birthday getaway to NYC we heard the Beyonce would be performing at the Roseland Ballroom to a standing room only audience. No questions asked this was immediate added to the agenda! Getting tickets were EXTREMELY hard! Her first show sold out in 22 seconds! But of course I had to still get tickets NO MATTER WHAT! I ended up getting tickets thru a re-seller paying a WHOLE lot more than face value but I knew I had to make this happen for my sister.

We arrived in NYC Friday around 11 am, initially the plan was to check into the hotel get dressed and go get in line. But after feeling the New York air we decided against it, wherever we were going to be in line was ok. The first stop after checking into the Wonderful W Times Square was MAC so the birthday girl could get the face beat down!! I must add I love the MAC in Times Square! They really make you feel and look like a celebrity!

 After her makeup we headed back to get dressed and head out to see KING B! We got in line around 4pm a line that was 4 blocks long (how ironic 4pm 4 blocks 4 is her album LOL) But anyway surprisingly most the people in line were dressed like they were going to a cook out or maybe even a walk in the park. NO LOOKERS at all!  Here's the birthday girls fit:



The Birthday Shoe

Shoe-a-cide


After getting dressed we headed to the Roseland Ballroom to get in line.

In line we met all types of cool people. Even Beyonce's lead guitar player Bibi McGill! She is really cool!


Around 7:15 I don't know what happened but the line was bum rushed people were yelling running and everyone was soaking wet!! But I guess that all paid off because we ended up in the front and like 7 rows from the stage! Go us! Whoop Whoop! Beyonces performance was amazing! She laughed, cried, told stories, chatted, told jokes and even took shots at Daddy Knowles! The cutest moment is when she noticed hubby was there, you know she showed off from that point on! But she promised us anyway this was the 4th night and it was being recorded so she would do the very BEST! And she did that plus! This girl is PERFECT!!! She performed 4 in its entirety with the exception of the bonus tracks. Bey made up for that because she performed Irreplaceable, Bootylicious, NoNoNo, Survivor and a few more tracks form her Destinys' Child days.  I give the show an A- , minus only because of the disorganization of the venue, but I would def do it again. I actually now prefer an intimate show over a huge venue! Enjoy the pics and video below!

Bananas for BOZZUTO!

 Sooo what exactly is Bozzuto and why am I going bananas??? Bozzuto Bonaza of course!!!   Easily I can say the best frickin community to call home LOL but I would of course need to explain why I LOVE LIVING HERE!!  Aside from being the most stylish and affordable communities for your money with the best staff who actually cares about their residents I love living here because of........{{insert drum roll here}} THE AMENITIES!!!

And too many amenities just to name ONE! What other community has a:

• Penthouse lobby
• Theater rooms
• Yoga Studios
• WINE racks
• Fitness centers (with working UPDATED equipment)
• Business offices with APPLE computers
• Away From Home” Concierge Service
• Guest Suites
• Eco-Conscious Living

Just to name a few!  That's right NO OTHER COMMUNITY! I love living here and will never move!  But since I am forced to pick my favorite amenity I would have to say the Business Center!

Being a working mom always on the go for business or pleasure I sometimes forget to print things or email them to myself and the business center is always readily available for me to use! I have been saved at many meetings by not having to go all the way back into my home to print or email a file.


Take a look at the photos below and you too will fall in love and want to live here too!!! Also take a look at the many amenities here: http://bozzuto.com/  Also follow them on twitter @livebozzuto and Facebook under Live Bozzuto

Hello Kitty....Pass the Bubbly!

 What  is  known to girls around the world  as sweet cute an innocent can now get you trashed wasted and in an AA meeting! Hello Kitty now has a wine!  The CEO of Hello Kitty says with the franchise turning 35 last year and now seen as a bit more mature having a wine is a great idea. Ummmm NOT! I think this is a terrible idea and encourages little girls to drink. Placing their favorite girly character on a bottle of wine is just too inviting. The wine comes in 4 different tastes with names to identify with each closely. The wine is currently only available in stores on the West Coast but widely available online. SMDH!

In researching this topic I found that this wine isn't the first bad idea for Hello Kitty branding. The kitty also is linked to a "kitty pleasing" pocket vibrator. Now I a huge fan of adult toys but come on now!! Can you imagine your daughter finding this?? How would you explain? And for the company to describe it as "discreet" Yea ...right! Check it out here. 

Here's a look also at some more BAD IDEAS from Hello Kitty.

I can assure you my daughter will NEVER have a Hello Kitty Themed Birthday as cute as it is Ill pass.

What do you guys and gals think???

Smooches XoXo

LOVE is....Good SEX** RATED R POST**

Hey Lovies!!
I think where alot of us mess up is we tend to believe sex is just a physical interaction. Good Sex is just the opposite. Sex involves your mind body and soul. A good sex life is more than just switching up positions. Licking here and sucking there! Your sex life has to be maintained!
  Having a good and healthy sex life takes time and more time to maintain. And adding a child, career, school and household duties to the mix makes time a huge issue!  Our busy lives  often leave us tired and drained by the time the sun goes down, but under no means should you allow tiredness to effect having a healthy sex life. Sometimes having better sex can be  as simple as doing something a little different, a little more or a little less! Here are 10 tips to having good sex:

10. Blindfold Him:

 How mysterious is this for you to have your guy blindfolded and unknowingly about what about to go down! He doesn't know where you are or what you are about to do, start off with your tongue and go slow, change your pace and speed up your motions (on whatever body part you choose). Blindfolding is not meant to be a long drawn out process. Overstimulating will make the stimulation null and void. Balance is the key!  You will know once your guy is at a point of no return!

9. Give Him Instructions:

 After being in a relationship or marriage for a while he may seem to think he knows everything that makes you happy in the bedroom, which is false. We grow as women and our desires and wants change! Men, however will not think outside the box so just be blunt and let him know ! "Baby I need you to place me on my stomach and start from my toes" LOL Also if something is not working tell him! "Hey you are a little rough on my nipples" Not only will this get you the sex you yearn for it could even be a turn on for your guy to hear you talk such "dirty"

8. Red Light Special

Keep two lamps on your night stands, one for normal use and one when it time to get it in. Screw a dim bulb or a red one  into the ‘sex lamp’ and only switch it on when you are ready to put in work. Don’t talk so much– just turning on the light should signal whats about to happen.

7. Switch up the pace

If he usually enjoys it slow and soft,make it a little rough. If typically foreplay is  his thing, indulge him in aquickie. Are "ooohs and Ahhs" usually your expression of pleasure?Talk dirty! Become his lil freak – He will be stunned with the new pace of things -almost as exhilarating as becoming a new lover for him!

6. Give Yourself a Brazilian

Lets face it most men dont like hair in their food! Dont just trim- get rid of it all! I guarantee he will be in LUST theres something breathtakingly naughty about being bare down there! Yes a Brazilian will hurt like HELL but it is all worth it! Trust me on this one ladies!

5.no NO's 

Anything goes!!! As long as you are not hurting eachother (,unless S&M is your thing)  you should feel free do whatever you want with your partner. Make a sex tape and watch it together. Have a mutual play s session. Bring in the sex toys.  (NOT RECOMMENDED IF YOU HAVE MULTIPLE PARTNERS)

4. RIDE!!!

Not sure why you wouldn't be already but every man loves this! The feeling of being in control of that session should be a turn on for you completely. You have the upper hand in this situation! You have the POWER!!! If you are shy to get on top out of fear of performing incorrectly know that you cant go wrong. When all else fails while your on it get on your feet to give you more control. Warning: If you are doing this correctly sex will be over rather quickly but there is a resolution for this premature ejaculation LOL see item #1

3. Look Good

Sometimes as mom, wives , girlfriends etc we can get too "comfortable". We walk around the house in our  tees, pinned up hair, scarves and granny panties, Men are visual creatures even though your man may not be a "lingerie" guy you still need to look sexy occasionally, I recommend 24-7! Dont pin your hair until he closes those eyes LOL and just throw out the granny panties NOW!  I know looking good 24-7 is yet another job so to make it easy for you just dont wear anything at ALL. Once the kids are asleep drop it down to the birthday suit  and go load the dish washer I know that will spark up some good sex! Which lead to #2

2.  The BED is BORING

Find a new place to get it in.  Maybe after loading the dishwasher up run it and hop on top. Go out into the garage the cool temp will make it even hotter. Meet him at the door with nothing on, dont even give him a chance to think about what going to happen next. There are countless ways to have fun with this one!

1. Suck more D*ick...

and enjoy it! I think I had to be blunt on this one! I hear so many women saying what they wont do and my first question is always WHY don't you? I love talking to people and just seeing why they feel or think a certain way, and from what I hear this is the next best thing for a man. IDK why they love it so much but they do! LOL But as with anything you do just like being at work you HAVE to enjoy it! If you dont its a waste of time. A couple of tips to giving an awesome blow job: look into his eyes, start with a gentle lick to make sure he is ready, use your hands as if you were giving a hand job(amateurs)  and gently massage the balls.

I hope these 10 things really help improve some you gals sex life. As with anything you do do it safe. These tips are solely meant for those who are in a committed or monogamous relationship. Safe sex is the best sex , and no sex is great too! Happy Sexing!!